Pregnancy Loss:

Pregnancy loss is definitely hard to go through. I know first hand what it is like as I lost my son, Deuce after he was born at 24 weeks. You may find that suffering a loss is difficult for siblings. To once have the excitement of becoming a big brother or sister, and suddenly being informed of a loss can be pretty overwhelming for them. Dad also may experience a tough time as well. Grieving is important when coping with infant death. Whether you have experienced a miscarriage, stillborn, loss of a child from sids, or in my own case, premature birth, it is important to find ways to honor the memory of your child.

Women deal with their loss in different ways. Some experience depression and have difficulty coping with stress. Being open with your partner and sharing feelings can make things a little easier.

There were so many people that were there to depend on. I met so many encouraging and supportive people in pregnancy forums. I totally recommend you get to know others that were in your situation. You will find that you can relate and you'd be amazed at the comfort you will feel. It got me through so much.

Pregnancy after miscarriage can be a scary thing to go through. Taking it easy, day by day, until you are ready is a normal process. Some couples find strength in trying to conceive again. This is a decision that you and your partner will make when ready, although for some, pregnancy after loss may be far off from your immediate plans.

I've learned through my husband and my experience that although things are tough, it does get easier to work through. As a couple, as long as you learn to lean on one another, you can make it through.

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